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Thanks for the greeting. I would like to caution against being too judgemental, though. In many societies the family Christmas gathering can be quite large so two carts full of food might not be out of line. When I was growing up we often times had fifteen or more people at the dinner table. I will be at my sons house and there will more than likely be at least ten people and that is a lot of food.
Also, in our family it is a tradition to portion out the leftover food so that everybody takes food home with them. So what looks like gluttony may actually be something entirely different.
Yeah, you are of course right on this one. I just needed a symbol to get the entry started, and this anecdote was a good fit, and I'm fairly sure you get what I'm hinting at there
. Additionally, in the village where that supermarket was located (one village up north from mine) everybody knows everyone, so we kinda know for whom those trollies were meant
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I'd second that. And add a bit. Some of us have the Christmas gathering taking more than just the Christmas eve.
Last night we got a reunion of our family, for like six hours, it's pretty much a tradition for us. Now, each one went to their homes and I'm getting ready to keep the gathering happening for like 10 or 12 hours.
And hey, let's talk about a lot of people on those gatherings, to emphasize your point: My family came from Portugal to Brasil 60 years ago. My grandfather and grandmother are already gone, but we are still a family of 5 of their sons with each one's wifes/husbands and "children". And we have their children's children too!
Add to that a few of the friends we got for living a family large as that in the same neighborhood (in a 2 miles radius around our late grandmother's house) and you'll understand that we easily count our gathering guests by the dozen
Yesterday we had 31 people present at our dinner and pretty much all of them stayed for the celebrations after it. And I'm guessing we'll have a few more today, because there were no outsiders yesterday, they were probably all with their families.
We are simply a too-big-of-a-family and we incorporate our friends as part of the family too. So, can you imagine the size of our trollies ?
Now, A Merry-Continuation-Of-Christmas for you guys, for I'm going back there.
See ya at night.
It's not a good vs. bad comparison, there are good things and bad things in western civilizations, like in other civilizations. People just have to be humble enough to admit it otherwise we will still have wars everywhere on Earth like we've had so far because of egoitism.
Back to topic, yeah, I'm happy that we have this new release right for Christmas. I'm gonna grab me a copy right away 
I wasn't referring to that bit - I was referring to the religions thing in general.
In the UK, there is no real thust to using a non offensive and 'pc' term.
Besides, 'holiday' means something different here anyway. Your holiday is your 'annual leave' or what you would call 'vacation' in the US. We refer to Christmas as just that, or to be pedantic maybe 'Christmas holiday'. We do the same with Easter too. We'd therefore need to say 'Happy Christmas holiday' to get the same meaning. To a Brit, 'happy holidays' sounds really false and meaningless.
Good Yule to all, anyway!
Maybe it would be good if we all just happily agreed to disagree on stuff like that in this thread. It is a time for reflection upon, and celebration of, our own personal philosophies, whatever they may be. I happen to be atheist; And I celebrate along with everyone else. I don't mind it being called Christmas. That which we call a rose, by any other name, would smell as sweet.
Edited 2007-12-25 00:45
I too am an atheist, and I too will be eating vast amounts of food and consuming large amounts of alcohol with my family and friends over the next few days.
I also know that this time of the year was picked to mark the birth of the Christ, as it is the start of the nights getting longer in the northern hemisphere.
However, I have noticed that with all the bickering among the different religions, it is people like me, and sbergman27 who seem to enjoy Christmas the most, as we do not associate anything deeper to it, other than an excuse to pig out with people you care about.
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Although I do not care for any of you in the slightest...
Have a peaceful, relaxing and most of all a Happy Christmas.
Merry Christmas
A good Christmas - a time to eat, drink, too much, be with family (or at least think about them) and generally have a warm fuzzy feeling about humanity. No bad thing.
To the Christians try not to be too ideologically committed to your doctrine, remember this is supposed to be a time of good will (I think in the UK the only people to ban Christmas were Christians) and I suppose the same goes to every one else.
Have as good day.
Actually Christmas has a lot to do with Christ - but Yule has little to do with Christmas.
It's just that we from Scandinavia has managed to blend things better (taking the traditions from south and keeping our own terms).
Imagine a Dane calling "Jul" for "Kristmesse" - oh dear...
"Christmas" is a Christian holiday derived from the German tribes, and other tribes, tradition of the celebration of the winter solstice. Many of the traditions -- dragging a tree into the house, lighting it, a giant feast, are all from those "pagan" traditions. The religious component is the part that makes it Christmas. Everything else is a celebration of Winter and the solstice, nothing more, nothing less. Even though I'm not a practicing christian, I still say "Merry Christmas", even my *** friend says "Marry Christmas", simply because that's what December 25 is -- Christmas Day. Not "Festivus day", "Holidays Day", or "Seasons Greetings Day", it's "Christmas Day". Anyone who gets their panties in a knot over that just wants to start something.
So I end this rant with a belated "Merry Christmas to all" -- to all the jews, muslims, christians, hindus, buddhists, everybody. Now go hug your husband, kiss your wife, tell your girlfriend, boyfriend, kids, that you love them, and thank $DEITY that you're around for another winter. That's what the real meaning of Christmas is.
By BurningShadow:
> Christmas got nothing to do with christianity, and I can't believe that you really don't know that...
Christmas has pagan origins, that's correct:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christmas#Pre-Christian_origins
"...In part, the Christmas celebration was created by the early Church in order to entice pagan Romans to convert to Christianity without losing their own winter celebrations..."
But how about reading the whole article? ;-)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christmas
"Christmas is an annual holiday that celebrates the birth of Jesus. It refers both to the day celebrating the birth, as well as to the season which that day inaugurates, which concludes with the Feast of the Epiphany."
Click on Epiphany:
"Epiphany (Greek: ..., "appearance" or "manifestation") is a Christian feast intended to celebrate the "shining forth" or revelation of God to mankind in human form, in the person of Jesus."
So Christmas has definitely a lot to do with Christianity.
Edit: Original message from BurningShadow inserted
Edited 2007-12-27 10:26
Uhm... even if you ignore every other religion's holidays around this time, "Happy Holidays" is also a way of saying "Happy New Year" too, the origin of the phrase... ^_^;
Myself, I'm a happy pagan, and I don't mind Christians who also celebratate my holiday -- it's the day to celebrate selflessness, charity, and goodwill towards others, after all. :>
The issue is that there is a group of people who are constantly in the mode of "ooh, I better ensure that so-and-so doesn't feel left out by saying 'Christmas'" - for me, I'm not a Christian, but I certainly don't feel offended if someone says 'Merry Christmas' and I say 'Merry Christmas'.
PS. Side note the person raising about Christmas, yes, we know it was a 'dart board' guess in regards to Jesus's birth but I think that the birth, rather than the day it actually occurs on, is the more important thing to consider. Trivialities such as 'is this the right day' simply serve to distract.
The issue is that there is a group of people who are constantly in the mode of "ooh, I better ensure that so-and-so doesn't feel left out by saying 'Christmas'".
While that's no doubt correct in some cases, I believe it's actually mostly due to a specific political philosophy that wishes to do away with religion so do all they can to remove all references to it. They used to be called communists but that's unpopular these days so they're known as the "politically correct" these days.
(Surely unintentional) Comedy gold.
Merry Christmas to all the Buddhists, Hindus,and neo-pagans out there too. It has been an interesting year. Bush is almost out of office and my holiday grows brighter each day! If you are not feeling so cheery then drink some eggnog and enjoy yourself!
Edited 2007-12-24 21:47
"...and Eid ul-Adha have already passed, so my best wishes are in retrospect if you practice the ... Muslim religion"
Thank you for wishes Thom Holwerda, this was a very kind gesture. In that spirit I'd like to wish all my Christian and Jewish friends, and a matter of fact any other religion that might also be celebrating a holiday around this season, a very happy and save holiday season.
Here's looking forward to a wonderful 2008.
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I heard, through the grapevine, that he uses current versions of SLS on his desktop, and Yggdrasil on his laptop. (There are advantages to having ready access to the afterlife.)
That was intended to avert a flame war. But just watch one break out among the greybeards here anyway! :-P
Edited 2007-12-25 01:02
Well, if it's explicitly about redemption and freedom, then:
http://dynebolic.org/
;-)
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I would prefer to celebrate our differences.
Wishing you all Infinite Diversity in Infinite Combinations! :-)
http://tinyurl.com/yjatps
Edited 2007-12-25 00:29
Merry Christmas to all.
About the "Merry Christmas" vs "Happy Holidays" debate, I just saw a commercial selling buttons that said "It's OK, you can wish me a Merry Christmas". Pretty funny
http://www.wmamc.com/index.html
A Happy Holidays from a Scottish guy here ... Who cares about the religious aspect, as long as we're having fun, not at work or being forced to go sign on the dole ... Have a good one people, i know i will :-)
EDIT - Ohh and for those who are working over the period im not wanting to discriminate against you either. have a good one also :-)
Edited 2007-12-25 02:42 UTC
Where did the year go? Suddenly it is December......again - and we realize that with giant strides we started in January and within a blink of an eye, 2007 is on its back!
A big "Thank You" to each and everyone of you.......without you, I'm sure that 2007 would have been extremely boring.
From my side I wish you all a magical Festive Season filled with Loving Wishes and Beautiful Thoughts.
May 2008 mark the beginning of a Tidal Wave of Love, Happiness and Bright Futures.
And to those who need someone special, may you find that true love.
To those who need money, may your finances overflow.
To those who need caring, may you find a good heart.
To those who need friends, may you find fellowship.
To those who need life, may you find peace.
Here is what I am hoping for in the next year:
1. A president with a brain. I did not for the current one either time. There are only two I see in the current crop which might fill the role well.
2. Pull all U.S. military forces home. I've wanted this for the last 30 years. Let the world fight its own battles in which we have no business in.
3. Cut off all grants-funds-monies being sent to other countries. It's time for Europe, Asia, Africa and all others to help their own.
4. Complete and total energy independence from all overseas sources. Green and renewable technologies taking the lead. Basically, I would like to see oil become near or completely worthless commodity.
5. The movement of society away from those based upon religions to ones based on science and human morality.
Notice the not-so-subtle shift in the thinking of the average U.S. citizen?
Maybe, just, maybe after these things, I could actually wish others happy holidays.
Edited 2007-12-25 04:41
Who said I believe in religion? I believe it is sheer hypocrisy to say Merry Christmas or any other religious mantra babble while we have religious wars going on today. As long as one human being oppresses another we really need to check our religions.
Maybe, just maybe, I am just an extremely jaded 44 year-old New Mexican. I doubt it. My green eyes have seen way too much violence in life to not believe we are descended from apes. Apes with violent and self-destructive tendencies. I am just waiting for the next religious nut job or mentally-imbalanced paranoid to prove me right ... again.
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Hi mind!dagger,
We're both 44. And I live just a state or two over from you in Oklahoma City, OK. (In what part of NM do you live?) And I'm also atheist. So that gives us a lot in common. I also see much harm derived fr









