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The sad thing is not that this is apparently a thing - no, the sad thing is that people actually believe this to be true. If you believe Apple and Google really care about you as a user, you've already lost the battle.
You're basically saying "I know I'm being lied to and paying 40% margins but hey, they're nice to me so it's okay!"
Imagine any actual person in your life acting like that. You'd be pissed off, and maybe even distance yourself from him/her, right?