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"This is Texas. Everybody has a gun. My hairdresser has a gun." -- One of my favorite lines from Miss Congeniality
Though I live in Texas, I've never seen a handgun carried by a private citizen in public. Crimes have dropped steadily since we kicked out veto-happy Ann Richards and enacted CHL in 1995, perhaps because even though we don't carry them around in public, criminals never know who's carrying one. But Texans (and I think most Americans) are just friendly by nature.
While I think the general level of politeness in America is more cultural than gun-driven, I think you'd find that a more relaxed attitude toward firearms would be a win overall. But that's for each country to decide.
I've found people to be friendly wherever I've travelled in the world. Perhaps my efforts to adapt to and appreciate the local culture have something to do with it.
Definitely. This is so important. As a tourist, you're a guest, so act like one. If you find something weird, keep it to yourself, and don't act all hoity-toity. Or, better yet, try to discuss the thing you find weird with a local to understand what's going on - most of the time, it's nothing.
And what always helps: do some effort to speak the local language - even if it's just hello, thank you, and where's the bathroom. As a Dutchman, nothing makes me happier than a foreign tourist trying to speak some Dutch.
I also live in Texas, and same here. A lot of us own guns, but we don't carry them around. If people tried to loot around the coast after a hurricane like they did with Sandy, we would just use them for target practice
Edited 2012-12-01 14:39 UTC
That reminds me of a recent trip to Arizona, an "open carry" state, I was first surprised to see "No Handguns" signs on restaurants, bars, etc. (anyplace that serves alchohol?). And then later slightly alarmed the first time I saw a civilian in a convenience store with a side arm (until I remembered it was perfectly legal there). It does take some getting used to.
I can't say us Californians are the nicest. But, for the most part we're pretty laid back.
Anything based on fear is not a real thing, and is not good. It's just superficial, and it falls down quickly when the real problem arrives - then your guns come to play, that's why you have massacres, shootings, etc. Thx, but I won't buy that. I prefer to live in society that is sincerely polite, or impolite, but without the fear of being shot in any random location by frustrated husband, mad wife, angry kid from the block, mad hairdresser ...
Guns won't teach you compassion, understanding, wisdom. It doesn't solve any problem. It only covers it, but underneath the surface there's much going on ... and it does errupt from time to time. The problem is - consequences are usually terrible, and there is nothing more you can do about it.
And there are countries in Europe where guns are very prevalent (at the least ~rifles; and OTOH, IIRC, in Switzerland it's not uncommon to see on a street or in a shop somebody with an assault rifle); doesn't seem to make much difference with neighbours, it's seemingly not really about guns at all.





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It is about guns. Having guns easily available to everyone really ups the level of politeness and culture in general. That is why I'm all for it in Europe as well... we need more guns!