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Do all the Dutch feel this way as well? I hope to make it over to Amsterdam one day and do some window shopping
I was there just a few months ago and like anywhere else touristy, you get friendly people and those who just tolerate tourists.
However I find even some of the colder people are pleasant enough if you're friendly and at least try a little to embrace their culture and language. (nobody expects tourists to be fluent in the hosts languages, but speaking English louder and slower, as if the recipient is an idiot, is not going to win an favours either!)
Haven't been to the Netherlands, but when I went to Italy I was struck by the "difference in public behavior", to put it diplomatically. Having my feet in two of the most polite and hospitable cultures in the world (American and Turkish), it was almost enough to ruin my trip. I'm not sure where the "rude American tourist" stereotype comes from at all, it seems quite the opposite in my limited experience!
I think the stereotype is more like "loud and uncouth" American tourist, which would certainly apply to some, but not all. In places where the American visitors tend to be more provincial and less worldly, such as Caribbean and Mexican beach destinations, I can see that stereotype playing out. But hey, we're human beings, and we love to divide people into categories and make generalizations.
Exactly.
I went to Paris a few years ago (fall of 2008), and it was great, even as an American. Just be polite, and at least learn how to ask if they speak English in French. And how to say a few words here and there. You'll get credit for trying, and you'll be fine - they're not going to want to speak French with you anyways, and will switch to English
My neighbors who went the previous summer, and the friend who went with me, did not do so well. Would just walk up to people and start asking questions in English (rolls eyes). Did better than me in Rome, though. The people were nice to me, and the food was great, but the chaos and old rocks just got to me after a while.
When I was in Norway in May, I tried to revive my rusty Norwegian. The problem was, I needed people to talk slower to understand them, and I felt they preferred to switch to English once realized that I did not follow them at the normal pace of their speech. I did mostly succeed with the request "Can we continue in Norwegian, but a bit slower?", but felt some reluctance on their part.




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Definitely. This is so important. As a tourist, you're a guest, so act like one. If you find something weird, keep it to yourself, and don't act all hoity-toity. Or, better yet, try to discuss the thing you find weird with a local to understand what's going on - most of the time, it's nothing.
And what always helps: do some effort to speak the local language - even if it's just hello, thank you, and where's the bathroom. As a Dutchman, nothing makes me happier than a foreign tourist trying to speak some Dutch.