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I have family there. It can be infuriating that people don't open up, especially when you do know they can speak English but this is more to do with potential personal shame if their language skills turn out to be actually inadequate than anything to do with racism or ethnic pride (though of course I have experienced that elsewhere - yes, I am looking at you, Paris).
In my experience, SK and South Koreans have changed *a lot* in the last decade and a half. When I first went, handicapped people would be begging in tube trains and in subways, and they were overall simply ostracised. Now you see families with their disabled relatives doing everyday stuff, and nobody blinks. I am not saying that people don't still beg and that the rest of the country is like Seoul: they do, and it isn't, but if you think that at the same time here in England hate crime against disabled people has increased over recent years, it makes you think.
The key to a lot of this is drinking, much like in England: share a bottle, and you share views and cultures. Koreans are indeed very, very proud people. They have been hemmed in for millennia by other, much larger, and much more territorially aggressive nations, and have survived. That takes a certain stoicism and nerve. But not the kind of racism that the OP portrays.
That is because of the cultural shift. In Paris, being nice, polite and friendly is not something to be proud of. We mock the british and anglo-saxons in general for being polite. In Paris, you have to shout. When someone asks something, you just ignore him or you shout at him. When tourists ask for a direction, you send them the other way. Parisians are proud of their snobism and general lack or manners. It's part of the romance of Paris.





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and you said that without any irony whatsoever....