Linked by David Adams on Wed 6th Aug 2008 15:28 UTC, submitted by estherschindler
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I have news for you, you can be polite and honest at the same time.
The problem I see is that everyone tries to be as arrogant as Linus, and when more that one arrogant person is in the same discution things get stuck.
I just see the "honestly" thing as a lame excuse to be rude with the others.
RE[2]: Honesty > etiquette
by iain.dalton on Wed 6th Aug 2008 21:39
in reply to "RE: Honesty > etiquette"
you can be polite and honest at the same time.
Well, if you work enough with people, you'll realize that there are lots of them, who won't get the point if it's politely coated. Some just need to be told that what they do sucks because otherwise they'll think it's ok to do so the next time too. It's no reason is saying things like "this is good but it would've been better to do it this way" when you don't like it just say it's no good and make them do it the right way. It's the best way to make people learn from their mistakes, and if you cover the mistakes by sugar-talk, they won't ever feel they made any.







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I value honesty much more than I do etiquette. I'm with Linus on this one.